Girl Talk

(from the perspective of the writer and his conversations with women; he placed himself in their shoes; may contain offensive language) A girl can only get her heart broken so many times before it becomes rubble. I propose to be this eloquent cool, but not too cool, hot but not too hot, sassy but not … Read more

A Women’s Guide To Understanding Men (part 2 of 2)

Last month, I put together a list of things that a woman might say to a man in a given circumstance and what she “really” meant. I did this in an effort to help men all over the world understand women. Hopefully it helped all the guys out there that read it. This month, I’ve … Read more

A Man’s Guide To Understanding Women (part 1 of 2)

For centuries men have tried to figure out what women really think and what they are REALLY saying when they say something. I’ve decided that after over 50 years of experience with women, I would convey my “knowledge” to men all over the world or at least the men that read this blog. So, I’ve … Read more

4 Words

4 Words Words that have meaning do not come easy  A  word is just the tip of the iceberg  of experience Year  of   Loving  Losing  Living.. Years culled with precious time that lead to the understanding that give words meaning The understanding  that only comes with the experience paid with a lifetime Meaning does not  … Read more

Defamation Of Character

A person’s character is an important thing and can be entirely subjective. Once labeled, you may have a hard time changing the opinions of others. Human nature allows us to pass judgment while never having met someone, solely based on the rumors or even stereotyping. Better still an opinion about someone’s real character can be … Read more

Choose Your Words Wisely

Once those syllables come out of your mouth, they can’t be retracted.  Oh sure you can apologize, but what you said can never be unheard. Your only hope is that the person hearing it forgives you and you can move on. When a child is born the parents wait patiently for the first word…will it … Read more

Look Out The Window

We’ve all heard the expressions “stop and smell the roses” and “life is too short.” They both refer to living your life with a deeper appreciation of people and the world around you. They’re reminders to slow down, to notice the little things, to not take things for granted, and to be present. When I … Read more

Change Your Words, Change Your Life

I purchased a Law of Attraction planner after my daughter showed me hers. I had been looking for a simple planner so I could write down projects as Linda and I were planning them for the blog. What I actually purchased was a new way of life. I have always been a “datebook” kind of … Read more