What Is Love?

What is love? I’m 57 years old, and I’m still trying to figure that out. I’m not even sure if I’ve ever been in love. Since my divorce, five years ago, I’ve dated a few women who have been into me, but I wasn’t that really into them. I liked a couple of them, and … Read more

Girl Talk

(from the perspective of the writer and his conversations with women; he placed himself in their shoes; may contain offensive language) A girl can only get her heart broken so many times before it becomes rubble. I propose to be this eloquent cool, but not too cool, hot but not too hot, sassy but not … Read more

Why So Many Women Are Single And Alone

Truth is not an insult and Reality is not an attack. Remember when there were courtship, chivalry and traditional dating? Since the late ’60s, women have been encouraged to get a college degree and a career. The prime fertile and beauty years are thus spent avoiding marriage to become ‘strong and independent’. And during these … Read more

Dating at 50

After my divorce, I was ready to hop on that horse. To be clear I am not saying back on the horse because I was never really on it. I met my ex-husband at the age of 16 and was with him until I was 48. I had never been with anyone else before or … Read more

A Women’s Guide To Understanding Men (part 2 of 2)

Last month, I put together a list of things that a woman might say to a man in a given circumstance and what she “really” meant. I did this in an effort to help men all over the world understand women. Hopefully it helped all the guys out there that read it. This month, I’ve … Read more

A Man’s Guide To Understanding Women (part 1 of 2)

For centuries men have tried to figure out what women really think and what they are REALLY saying when they say something. I’ve decided that after over 50 years of experience with women, I would convey my “knowledge” to men all over the world or at least the men that read this blog. So, I’ve … Read more

You Know You’re A Real Man If…

You Know You’re A REAL Man If… …fact and fiction     You don’t understand women, and you believe that they are all CRAZY!! Fact: A real man subscribes to Cosmopolitan and Good Housekeeping to understand women.    You don’t like watching “Romantic” movies. Fact: Even though a real man doesn’t like watching romantic movies, he will watch … Read more

#MeToo

As we all know, Me Too is a movement against sexual harassment and sexual assault. This movement keeps growing, the stories keep coming, and more women (and men) are finding the courage to speak up. I don’t think any of us have a sense of the magnitude of the problem. I’ve dealt with it. Early … Read more

Why Isn’t Your Glass Half Full?

Have you ever been around a friend or family member who is so negative that you find it hard to be around that person? I have. I want to support them, but after a while, it gets to be a bit draining. And, I tell myself that I care (and I do) but sometimes I … Read more